Sermon: Serve Others

Today Pastor Choi talks about another mark of Christ’s disciples: serve others.  God has called the believers in Christ and appointed them to be His servants.  He points out that to serve God and others in Christ’s name indeed is a privilege and honor rather than a burden or even a duty.  The sermon focuses on what God’s will for His servants is and proper attitudes with which we are to serve others.

    Serve Others

 

Following is a summary of the sermon:

Serve Others: Be Christ’s Disciple (4)

  • Mark 10:45
  • New American Standard Bible (NASB)
  • 45 For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”
  • 2 Corinthians 4:5
  • New American Standard Bible (NASB)
  • For we do not preach ourselves but Christ Jesus as Lord, and ourselves as your bond-servants for Jesus’ sake.Introduction:
  • Recap: I have been talking about marks of Christ’s disciples: what distinguishes us as a follower of Christ from a mere church goer?  They are: put Christ first, separate from the world, be steadfast.  Another mark of Christ’s disciple I am going to talk about today is: to serve others.
  • We are called to a life-long servant-hood.  When Christ calls us to follow Him, He also calls us into a life of service.  He came to this earth, not to be served, but to serve (Mark 10:45).  The same Lord calls us this morning to follow His steps by serving others in His name.  You are called to God’s service.  Don’t think that being in God’s service is only for clergy; but it includes all of you too:  You are called to serve God and people in your lives.  You are a servant of God.
  • The meaning of servants of God:  Nowadays, the phrase “servant of God” and its concept are foreign to us.  We are living in a democratic society where everyone is considered and treated as equal (we use the words ‘employee (not servant)’ and ‘employer (not master).’  You occasionally hear the phrase “servant of God” in church, and many of us have no idea what it is all about.
  • The phrase “servant of God” has a very special meaning for us.  First of all, we must understand that this title is not for everyone in the world.  Rather, it is reserved only for those who are called in Christ and appointed by God.  Only they can use the title.  In fact, we are privileged to follow this special line of God’s people who worked as servants of God.  Here are some examples: Abraham, Moses, David, Daniel, all the prophets of God, Mary (the mother of Jesus), Jesus (Luke 22:27), Peter, Paul, and all the apostles of Christ.
  • Next, to be God’s servant is a privilege and honor, rather than a burden or even a duty.   Why?  Because it is God who has appointed us Christ’s disciples to serve Him and to serve others in the name of Jesus our Lord.  Have pride in serving Him in this capacity.  E.g.  A butler in uniform was preparing the State Dinner in the British Kingdom paying attention to the final details at the table.  He was going over one seat at a time, meticulously examining and wiping the glasses with a clean towel.  I could clearly see in his face the pride of serving the Queen.  How much more we ought to be proud of serving God who considered us worthy to be in His service!  We are God’s servants, bond-servants.
  • Meaning of bond-servant:  The Scripture calls us bond-servants (to be exact, the original Greek is ‘doulos’—slave).  The bond-servants are the servants that are bound with a contract (the Bible calls it Covenant).  When we were baptized washing away our sins, and when we declared to the church that we would follow Christ, we entered into this covenantal relationship with God where God says that He is our God and that we are His people.  In this covenant, God promises that He is with us, that He provides our needs and that He protects us from the Evil One.  In turn, we promise our allegiance and loyalty to Him in worship and service.  Please note here that no covenant was ever made without a sacrifice.  That’s where Christ comes in.  God has cut a new covenant with us through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ.  The New Testament puts this way: we are bought with a price.   That price was Christ the Passover Lamb, and His death on the cross paid the wages of our sins.
  • Accountability:  Where there is a servant, there is a master.  Servants work for their masters.  Servants are there to serve their master’s wishes and needs.  They do what their masters command them to do.  They don’t serve themselves.  If they do, they are no longer servants.
  • For each servant, there’s a certain set of expectations from the master.  As our Master, Jesus our Lord also has a certain expectations from us.  What are they?
    • Understand the master’s will:  First and foremost, servant must understand what the master wants.  Any servant who is ignorant of the master’s will is a useless servant.  If we claim that we are God’s servants, we ought to make every effort to clearly understand what God wants us to do in our lives and with our lives.  This is what God wants us to do: Serve others, using God-given talents and resources.  He wants us never to serve our own selfish needs and desires neglecting (or at the expense of) others’ needs.  God’s blessings on us are always meant to be shared with the less fortunate.  E.g. a rich man and Lazarus (Luke 16:19-31).  The rich man feasted sumptuously every day.  At his gate lay a poor man named Lazarus, covered with sores, who longed to satisfy his hunger with what fell from the rich man’s table; even the dogs would come and lick his sores…. The problem of the rich man was to fail to take care of his neighbor.
    • Serve with good attitudes:  Next, every servant is expected to serve with good attitudes.  Serve others—
      • A. with a purpose: Understand how your service to neighbors is connected to the Lord.  When you serve others, you serve the Lord.  By serving others, you please the Lord.  E.g. three masons working on God’s temple: the first one says, “I’d rather do something else, but nothing else is available for me.”  The second one says, “I don’t want to do this, but if I don’t, my family will starve.”  The third one says, “It is my joy working here.  I am doing it for the Lord and His people.”  He was the only one who can see how his service was connected to the Lord.  The Bible says, “Do everything for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31).
      • B. out of love, not out of duty:  Make sure that you serve others in love (Galatians 5:13), not out of duty.  E.g. Jacob served Laban his father-in-law for 7 years to marry Rachel.  “Those seven years seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her (Genesis 29:20).”
      • C. with humility (Acts 20:19):  Consider others better than you are when you serve them.   “Do nothing from conceit, but regard others as better than yourselves (Philippians 2:3).”   E.g.  A group of all white Christians went down to the Deep South during the 1960s to help a black congregation for repairs.  The program coordinator from the black church noticed that some of the white group doing their services out of conceit.  When he politely yet firmly confronted them with that attitude, the white folks got offended and left for home.
      • D. with God-given strength:  When you serve others, do it with God-given strength, not with your own.  There is a huge difference between services done by own strength and those done in God’s power.  It is like a difference between going to New York City by walking and driving.  It is much easier when you serve with God’s strength than with your own.  E.g. Last fall, 17 new members joined our church.  It was all done by God’s power and initiation, not by my own.  When you serve others, be sure to ask God for His strength and His wisdom (Psalm 86:16, 119:125).

What’s the reward for our services?

  1. Here on earth, lives changed and transformed.  Through our services, we build up each other’s life for good.  We see lives changed.  God commands us to contribute to each other’s spiritual and emotional growth.  E.g.  The other day I was doing my devotion reading Romans 15.  Verse 2 stood out to me: “Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up.”  I felt as if God was telling me to daily offer my service to build up my neighbor’s life through words of encouragement and love.  I envisioned myself standing by my neighbor who is building his house with bricks and I offer him the building material—one brick at a time.
  2. In Heaven, praise and honor from God.  In Heaven, God will acknowledge us by saying, “Well done, good and faithful servant!  Come and share in your master’s happiness!” (Matthew 25:21).  God will honor those who serve Christ (John 12:26).

               Closing:

A king delights in a wise servant and a shameful servant incurs his wrath (Proverbs 14:35).  May God bless us to be a wise servant who brings delights to Him through our daily life of service for others.  Amen.

Sermon: Five Love Languages–based on Gary Chapman

Today Pastor Choi talks about the languages people use to convey their love messages to each other based on Gary Chapman’s sermon tape.  Pastor Choi begins with his own definition of love languages: love languages are the means of communication to say “I love you” to each other.  They are the languages that the recipients of love would understand in the ways that the givers mean.  They are languages that would instantly register our love messages in the hearts of the recipients.  Then, the sermon explores the following five love languages (defined by Gary Chapman): words of affirmation, gifts giving, quality time, physical touch, and acts of service.

  Five Love Languages. based on Gary Chapman

 

Following is a summary of the sermon:

Five Love Languages”—based on Gary Chapman’s tape                      

1 Corinthians 8:1b

“Knowledge puffs up, while love builds up.”

Introduction

  • Everyone lives on love:  Everyone wants to be loved.  Everyone, in fact, needs to be loved.  We are creatures of love.  We live on love; when we are loved, we thrive.  When we are not loved, we wither.  We give one another love and we receive love from others.
  • How are we doing in this business of loving one another?  Why do we see so many people clamoring for love?  Why are there so many people, children and adults alike, deprived of love?  They don’t receive love; therefore, they have nothing to give. Or, they don’t give love to others, so they don’t receive love back.    Everyone wants to be loved.  We need love.
  • How do you say it?  So, if you want to love someone, let’s say, by saying ‘I love you,’ how do you communicate your love message to the recipient?  Just say it, you may think.  But, have you ever wondered that whatever you have said doesn’t always register in the person’s heart in the way you meant?  In other words, you need to say the love message in the ways that the recipient would surely understand it.  We need to communicate in the same language between the giver and the recipient.
  • E.g. If I speak to you “I love you,” in Korean, 100 times until my face becomes blue, you still won’t be able to understand what I am saying, because the Korean language is not your language of communication.  You would have no idea what I am talking about.  However, if I say “I love you,” in English, everyone here would get it right away, simply because it is your language.  It registers immediately in your heart.  The key is the means of communication.  The means to convey our love to each other.  I would call them love languages.
  • Credit to Gary Chapman: That’s the topic for today: the love languages we use daily.  I must give a proper credit here to the person who coined this terminology: love languages.  His name is Gary Chapman.  He came up with his theory that there are five different love languages people use daily.  About three years ago, my wife and I listened to an old sermon tape (18 years old to be exact) by him.  The sermon was very entertaining and informational that improved my marriage in understanding and practice.  My sermon this morning is heavily based on the tape that I heard.  I pray that my message would help every one of you to build up your relationships with spouses and children.  I also believe if you practice these love languages well, it will improve the relationships with friends, neighbors, and even coworkers.

    Contents

  • Definition of love languages: Before I dig deeper, let me repeat what I mean by love languages:  Love languages are the means of communication to say “I love you” to each other.  They are languages that the recipients would understand in the ways that the givers mean.  They are languages that would instantly register our love messages in the hearts of the recipients.
  • Emotional Tank:  Note here that Chapman mostly focuses on the emotional aspect of love and how-to’s thereof (in other words, the more important spiritual side such as ‘God’s love poured out into our hearts’ [Romans 5:5] or ‘love does no wrong to a neighbor’ [Romans 13:10] are not covered in his message.  Neither will I cover that this morning).
  • This is how it goes with the emotional aspect of love:  Each individual has his or her emotional tank that is filled up with love.  For instance, if someone loves you by saying, “You are wonderful,” then it increases the level of love in your tank.  If someone spends a quality time with you, you feel loved and the level of love in your tank rises up as well.  Out of that reservoir, you are able to give love to someone else in your life.  In these languages, people communicate with each other, build up each other in love, and help each other feel loved.  When these languages are practiced faithfully by couples in marriage, especially in a troubled marriage, their marriages can be healed and even thrive.
  • Five Love Languages:  Chapman identifies five languages.  I encourage you to follow along my sermon outline that is printed on your bulletin.  The first language of love is “Words of Affirmation.”
  • Words of Affirmation: Here are some examples of words of affirmation: “I Love You.”  “You look great today!”  “You did a fantastic job!”  “You’re the best!”  “You are beautiful!”  “You’re awesome!”  The list goes on.  Many of us are fluent in this love language.  However, some of us are not so good at this, so we say nothing to our loved ones.   Some of us are so poor on this language that we end up saying hurtful things to our children and spouses.  E.g.  One father would say to his son, “You, no good bum!” This became a permanent scar in the son’s emotions for the rest of his life.  E.g.2.  Faramir who yearned for his father’s affirmation to no avail in “the Lord of the Rings.”    E.g. 3.  One night, after the political rally on their campaign trail, George W. Bush drove home late with his wife Laura sitting next to him.  Still his truck running in front of his garage, he asked Laura, “What do you think of my speech tonight?” Laura obviously didn’t give him the highest mark, and he was so upset that he drove his truck into the garage wall.
  • Gifts Giving:  Clearly this is the language some people are very familiar with.  They are the masters of remembering special days and events in your life.  They would never fail to give you flowers/cards/presents.  E.g.  One husband would save up money for five years to buy a diamond ring for his wife on their every fifth anniversary.  The wife was really appreciative of that she still talks about it years later.    For someone with this language, if you don’t give gifts to her/him, guess how s/he would feel about the relationship.   Love deprived.  Love missing. Unloved.
  • Quality Time: I don’t have to tell you about the importance of spending time together.  Out of sight out of mind.  When you spend time with your loved ones, be sure to give undivided attention to each other.  E.g. I have seen a married couple eating T.V. dinners watching evening news on T.V.   No communication.  Nothing to talk about.  Nowadays, young couples communicate with smartphones even in their beds.   It is very important for parents to spend quality time together with their children.  E.g. 2.  A son was a star quarterback in his high school football team.  His dad never showed up at his son’s games, not even once.   So, next time, if your son wants to play a game with you, don’t refuse.  Drop everything and play with him.  One thing is for sure:  You will fill up his emotional tank and he will remember it for a long time.
  • Physical Touch: This one includes sex/hugs/holding hands.  Some of us love hugs.  Others avoid hugs by all means, because physical touch is not their thing.  But, there’s a sure merit to it.  Even Jesus gave a special blessing to the children by laying his hands on each of them.  E.g. Miura Ayako (Japanese novelist and Christian author): right after WWII, in her 20s and she was still single, she contracted tuberculosis that attacked her spine (known as caries of the spine or Pott disease).   Because of that condition, she was confined to bed for 13 years, “seven of them in a body cast that restricted all movement” (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ayako_Miura).   During this time, she married a wonderful Christian Miura Mitsuyo.  In her books, she wrote about her marriage life: basically, devoid of all sexual relationships, yet holding her hand with her husband sufficed her need of love.
  • Acts of Service: Simply put, this means, “Talk is cheap.  Show me your action!”  Husband can say to his wife a million times, “I love you.”  Wife replies, “If you truly love me, help me with house chores.”  “Here’s the vacuum cleaner!”  The Bible puts this way: “Let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and action” (1 John 3:18).   It also puts this way in James: “What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but do not have works?  If a brother or sister is naked and lacks daily food, and one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and eat your fill,” and yet you do not supply their bodily needs, what is the good of that?”  (James 2:14-16)

    Closing

  • Case Study:  pastor couple of 17 years of marriage.  Their love languages were different: Husband’s was Words of affirmation.  Wife’s was Gifts.  For their entire marriage, each one would speak to the other in their own love language instead of the other’s, so they always felt that something was missing in their unfulfilled marriage.  For instance, to make her husband happy, the wife would buy gifts for him on every single special occasion: birthdays, anniversaries, and Christmas.  He always thought that those gifts were a waste of money.  What about the other side?  The husband thought that his wife needed words of affirmation so he would tell her everyday how much she meant to him; how precious and beautiful she was.   All the words of affirmation without buying one single gift!  This practice went on for 17 years!  Then, one day, they discovered their language differences, so they started communicating in their spouse’s language, rather than in their own: the wife now tells her husband how great the sermon was on Sundays.  The husband begins to get something special for his wife.  So, their marriage has improved and they are still married.
  • My family:  Mine: words of affirmation. My wife: acts of service [results are important]. My daughter: quality time.  She cherishes every moment we spend time together.  She still talks about all the Bed Time Stories I told her many nights, and also remembers the times that we watched movies together.
  • Action points:  Remember this: these love languages work and work well only if when each of us practices them out of a sincere and selfless heart.  Otherwise, when ill-practiced, it will turn out as another expression of selfish desires we clamor.
  • This week, take some time to analyze your loved ones’ complaints, identify their love languages, and start loving them in their love languages in order to fill up their emotional tanks.   Before long, they will start giving back the love to you, and you will see the positive changes in your relationships.
  • Let’s pray.

     

Sermon: Be Steadfast

Today Pastor Choi talks about another mark of Christ’s followers: steadfastness.  He begins his message with the inseparable relationship between foundations and buildings; foundations determine the fate of buildings–to stand or to fall.  The same goes with believers.  He points out that Jesus is our foundation because He is our Rock that is immovable, unchanging, and never shifting.  On Him, we build our lives.  At the end of the message, he talks about an antidote for spiritual weariness and discouragement.

   Be Steadfast

Here’s a summary of the sermon today:

Be Steadfast: Be Christ’s Disciple (3)

1 Corinthians 15:58

  • New American Standard Bible (NASB)
  • 58 Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your toil is not in vain in the Lord.

    Hebrews 12:3

  • New American Standard Bible (NASB)
  • For consider Him who has endured such hostility by sinners against Himself, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.

    Introduction: Foundations determine the fate of the building

  • The Leaning Tower of Pisa (a city in Tuscany, Central Italy): the twelfth century edifice still stands today (August 9, 1173, the foundations were laid; construction lasted for the next 199 years).  As of today, the tower leans at an angle of 4 degrees.
  • “The tower’s tilt began during construction, caused by an inadequate foundation on ground too soft on one side to properly support the structure’s weight.” (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leaning_tower_of_pisa)

    Why foundations?

  • Anyone who’s in the building business knows how critical the foundations are for the buildings.  Building a house without firm foundations would be a disaster and a waste of time and money.
  • Why are foundations so important?   Because, without foundations, no house or building will stand strong.  Think of all the old cathedrals in Europe standing today.  Somebody had done a great job laying foundations of those churches.  Even though we cannot see the foundations from outside, every one of them has stood on firm foundations for centuries.
  • Why do foundations matter?  Because, they support the buildings.  Same thing goes with our life.  We need foundations for our lives.
  • Everyone conducts a life.  Everyone’s life is built on something, whether it’s built on principles or convictions such as education, relationships, money, fame, or ambition.  Our Christian life is built on repentance and forgiveness (Hebrews 6:1).  Our relationship with God is built on faith and hope.  The relationships that are built on love and commitment (Ephesians 3:17) last forever.

    God the Master Builder:

  • When it comes down to firm foundations where our lives stand, we don’t have to look further.   Meet God.   He is an expert architect and a master builder.  He knows what we are talking about.  He knows what we need for foundations of life.  He has been in this business for thousands of years.
  • Here are some of His credentials just in case you wonder.  God knows how to create things.  He knows how to sustain them, too.  He created the universe according to His brilliant design.  He created the heavens and the earth (Genesis 1:1).  He is the architect who laid foundations of the earth (Hebrews 1: 10).  He is the builder of the City in Heaven (Hebrews 11:10).   It’s worth talking about Heaven here.
  • In Heaven, there is the Holy City (New Jerusalem) that radiates with the glory of God. The city’s street is pure gold, transparent as glass. The Holy City has a great, high wall with twelve gates, and the twelve gates are twelve pearls. At the gates are twelve angels, and on the gates are inscribed the names of the twelve tribes of Israelites; on the east three gates, on the north three gates, on the south three gates, and on the west three gates. The wall of the city has twelve foundation stones, and on them are the names of the twelve apostles of the Lamb (Revelation 21:11-14, 21).
  • The foundation stones of the city are adorned with every kind of precious stone: jasper (red-yellow-brown-green), sapphire (blue), chalcedony (various colors), emerald (green), sardonyx (various), carnelian (brownish red), chrysolite (yellow-green), beryl (green-blue-yellow), topaz (blue-brown-yellow-orange), chrysoprase (green), jacinth (red), amethyst (purple) (Revelation 21:19).   Wow!
  • Why am I talking about foundations this morning?  Because, depending on what kind of foundations we build our lives on, in the end, we will either harvest wind (that is, nothing) or eternal life.  Also, the stability of our life as believers solely relies on the foundations.  God wants us to be steadfast and immovable in Christ.  He doesn’t want our lives to collapse whenever adversities strike us.  God wants us to stay strong in our life’s journey to Heaven.  He wants us to be rooted and established in love, hope, and faith (Ephesians 3:17) (Colossians 1:23).  He perfects us, confirms us, strengthens us, and establishes us in Christ (1 Peter 5:10).  And, He begins His work in us with the foundation.

    Who is our foundation?  Jesus Christ.

  • Remember Jesus’ parable on the wise and foolish builders? (Luke 6:48-49)  One built his house on the rock; the other built on the sand without a foundation.  One day rain came down. A flood arose, and the river burst against the houses. One house stood strong; the other fell and great was the ruin of the house!
  • Consider this: the two builders used the same materials for their houses. They had the same trouble at the same time: the torrential rain and the waves of waters.  But, the result was a night and day difference; one fell and the other stood.  Why?  All because of the foundation.
  • The house that withstood the torrents was built well on the rock (Matthew 7:25).
  • Jesus is the Rock in our lives.  Upon Him, we build our lives as a believer (1 Corinthians 3:11).  On this foundation of Jesus, we build our covenantal relationship with God.  When we build our lives on Him, we will be steadfast and strong, because Jesus Himself is immovable; we will withstand life’s challenges far better than those whose foundations is not Christ.

     

    Unpacking of 1 Corinthians 15:58

  • Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your toil is not in vain in the Lord.
  • Be steadfast (Εδραιοι):  The Greek root carries the meaning of ‘support’ and ‘foundation.’  In other words, you can only be steadfast with a foundation. No foundation, no steadfastness.  No foundation, no stability or longevity.  The same goes for us.  We cannot be steadfast without Jesus the Rock the firm foundation in our lives.
  • Immovable (Αμετακινητοι): this word ‘immovable’ comes from the Greek root ‘kineo’—where the English word “kinetic” comes from.  ‘Kineo’ means moving, shifting, and dislodged.  A house built on shaky foundation will be shifted and eventually fall to the ground and vice versa.
  • Always abounding in the work of the Lord: knowing that your toil is not in vain in the Lord.   There’s no such a thing as retirement in the Christian vocabulary.  As long as God grants us a healthy body and mind, we need to be actively engaged in the work of the Lord all the time.  E.g. Professor Moffett at Princeton Theological Seminary.  In 1990s, over 90 years old, he would jog a couple of miles on a treadmill and work on his book daily, well beyond his retirement age.  I hope every one of us to be like him.  What’s the incentive for abounding in God’s work?  Your labor is not in vain.  God watches and will reward you for your labor.  We shall reap what we have sown in due time (Galatians 6:9) if we faint not (grow weary, give up).  That leads me to the next verse.

    Unpacking of Hebrews 12:3

  • For consider Him (Jesus) who has endured such hostility by sinners against Himself, so that you will not grow weary (original Greek: be sick in soul) and lose heart.    
  • Consider Him:  Have you ever got discouraged after you worked so hard for the Lord?  In fact, it is normal for us to get discouraged or lose heart once in a while when we are involved with God’s work.  E.g.  Someone said an insensitive word that hurt your pride.  Others failed to give credits that you deserve.  The list goes on.  In those moments, the author of the Hebrews urges us to consider Jesus as an antidote for discouragements (sick in soul—like flu in body) or burn-outs: Look!  You’re not alone.  Consider Jesus who went through much worse than what you are going through now.  Consider how He endured hostility by sinners.  Indeed, on the cross, Jesus endured all the mockery from the sinners for whom He was dying.  Jesus endured hostility and His cross by focusing on the glory of crown.  If He did it, we the followers can do it, too.  By focusing on the glory and honor we will receive from the Lord, we can overcome temporary spiritual weariness.

    Closing

  • Build your life on Jesus the Rock.  He will keep you immovable and steadfast.  Abound in the work of the Lord and God will reward you eternally.  In moments of discouragement, consider Jesus.  Amen.

Sermon: Separate from the World

Today Pastor Choi urges the congregation to follow Jesus remembering one of the marks of Jesus’ followers: separate from the world.  Expounding on 1 John 2:15-17, he warns the believers not to love the world–the lust of flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life.  He exhorts them to choose God over the world keeping the end result in mind–the eternal life in the presence of God.

Separate from the World

Following is a summary of his sermon today:

Be Christ’s Disciple (2): Separate from the World

  • 1 John 2:15-17
  • New American Standard Bible (NASB)
  • Do Not Love the World
  • 15 Do not love the world nor the things in the world.  If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. 17 The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever.

    Introduction

  • We are on the sermon series of “Be Christ’s Disciple” focusing on what makes a person a follower of Jesus.  Jesus invites us all to follow Him to Heaven.  He leaves the decision to each individual.  Do you want to be His follower?  If you do, then you had better pay attention to what He says about discipleship.  One thing is for sure: going to church doesn’t automatically make you Jesus’ disciple.  Joining the church as official member doesn’t necessarily turn you into Jesus’ disciple, either.  That’s why I am doing this series on “Be Christ’s Disciple” where I am going to tell you the several marks of Jesus’ follower.
  • Last time, I talked about the first mark of Christ’s disciple: Put Christ first.  The one who follows Christ must (not a suggestion but a command) put Christ first, even before family and even before self.  Is it too tough to follow Him?  I decided to follow Him for the following two reasons: first, Jesus is worth dying for.  Next, He knows what’s best for me, so I trust in Him.
  • Today, I am going to talk about the second mark of a follower of Jesus: separate (set apart) from the world.  We the disciples of Jesus are not of the world.

    Contents

  • Spiritual World: Before we think about the meaning of being separate from the world, let’s think of the world we live in first.  It would be very naïve and even foolish of us to think that the world we see and feel is the only world there is.  Sun and moon, mountains and forests, animals and plants, ocean and fish and so on.  It is called the physical/natural world.  Anyone would agree that there are other worlds such as the mental world that we create/imagine in mind (E.g. Stephen Hawking with ALS disease created the universe in his head) and the spiritual world (invisible and incomprehensible without God’s help).
  • Spiritual Battle: When God created the world, the original plan was for us to enjoy His creation and have a right relationship with Him through worship and service.  Something went wrong, though.  One of God’s created angels rebelled against God.  His name was Satan—Lucifer—the Evil one.  He wanted to usurp God and take the place of God himself—to be worshiped by all.  He tempted Adam and Eve in the beginning.  He even tempted Jesus saying, if you worship me, I will give you all the kingdoms, glory, and power of this world (Matthew 4:9).   Two thousand years ago, God sent Jesus to destroy the works of the devil (1 John 3:8).  At the cross, Jesus won the decisive battle and won the victory over Satan.  Satan put Him to death, but Jesus rose again!   The Bible prophesied it this way in Genesis 3:15: He (referring to Jesus) shall bruise you (the Devil) on the head, and you shall bruise him on the heel.  In this spiritual world, we find ourselves still engaged in skirmishes with Satan’s followers until the Day of Judgment when God will throw Satan and his followers along with the fallen angels into Hell the eternal fire.  Today, Satan tries to deceive and destroy God’s people by all means including deception, fear, and persecution (that’s a topic for another sermon).
  • Jesus’ Prayer: Jesus was fully aware of this spiritual environment in which His disciples would be.  The night before He was crucified, He prayed to God on their behalf (John 17).  This is what He said to God in His prayers:  They are in the world but not of the world.  The Evil one tries to harm them, so protect them from him.  Sanctify them with your word.  Send them into the world, not out of the world, as holy (set apart) people of God.
  • Separate from the World:  We are of God not of the world.  We are set apart from the world.  Jesus said that we don’t belong to this world but to God.  Being of God means to be united with God.  We are one with God, which means that what goes well with God goes well with us.  What doesn’t go well with God doesn’t go well with us, either.  For instance, God is holy, therefore, we are to be holy.  God is the Light, therefore, we walk in the light not in the darkness.  What God rejects, we do the same.  E.g. God rejects hatred and sin.  So do we.  God practices truth and mercy.  So do we.  (E.g. 1 John 3:10–The one who doesn’t love his brother is not of God).  The same goes with us not being of the world.  We are not one with the world.  We are separate from the world, therefore, what the world loves and promotes, we don’t agree or accept.  E.g. sad reality: the worldly way of thinking permeates today’s church.
  • Consequences of being separate from the world: Jesus says, since we are of God and not of the world, the ruler of the world, the Evil one, hates us.  He hated Jesus first.  Here’s an example.  We are living in an age, where the persecution of Christianity becomes more and more intense (E.g. Kindergartner was forbidden to bring his children’s Bible for show- and-tell.  E.g. 2.  Gideons are forbidden to bring the Bibles to school nowadays).  Jesus says it is normal if the world hates us and persecutes us.  Because, we don’t follow what the world promotes.  Don’t worry, though: we do have God’s protection from the Evil one.
  • 1 John 2:15-17:  Now, let’s listen to John the Apostle what he says about the world we live in.
  • 15 Do not love the world nor the things in the world.  If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. 17 The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever.
  • John is right:  In one sentence in v. 15, John sums up what the things in the world are all about: the lust of flesh (self-will), the lust of eyes (self-wanting), and the pride of life.   I think he is very accurate in his assessment.  E.g.  Recently sitting in doctor’s office, I watched two programs on TV: Who wants to be a millionaire?  & The Chew.  One promotes the love of money and the other eating pleasure.  Both the desires of flesh.   If you watch TV, movies, and internet for hours every day, then don’t tell me that you don’t get influenced by the lust of flesh, the lust of eyes, and the pride of life.
  • Unpacking of v. 15Do not love the world nor the things in the world.  If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him:   The Message Bible puts this way: Don’t love the world’s ways. Don’t love the world’s goods. Love of the world squeezes out love for the Father. There’s a myth among Christians: You can love both God and the world.  The truth is we must choose either God or the world, not both.  Jesus says no one can serve both God and money at the same time.  We still try, though.  If you chase two rabbits, you will lose them both—Native American saying.  There will be a rude awakening one day if we do chase both.  I would rather choose God over the love of the world because I know what would happen to me when I love the world and fill my heart with the love of the world.  In the end, it would turn me into a monster who loves nothing but money/ loves no one but myself and I would die miserably with no hope in Heaven (E.g. Mr. Koo of LG).
  • Unpacking of v. 1616 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world.  The Message Bible puts this way: Practically everything that goes on in the world—wanting your own way, wanting everything for yourself, wanting to appear important—has nothing to do with the Father. It just isolates you from him.
  • Unpacking of v. 1717 The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever.  Choosing God over the world is no brainer for me for the following three reasons:  First, God matters eternally; the world doesn’t last forever. Next, everything from God is good.  Third, you become more like what you love and pursue over the years.  I want to be like God.   Make your choice with the end in mind.

    Closing:

  • Being separate from the world is not about rules and regulations.  It is, rather, about understanding who we are and what we are called for and pursuing the relationship with the Holy God and obtaining the outcome—the eternal life. One thing is for sure:  whatever we sow daily in our character and life, we will harvest years later: either the life eternal in the presence of God or the eternal death (simply put, Heaven or Hell).
  • Are you a disciple of Jesus?  Don’t follow the world.  Do not love the world.  You are not of the world.  You are set apart by God.  Stay pure and blameless until the Day of the Lord.
  • Let’s pray.